Thursday, October 31, 2013

Halloween

This year for Halloween Jacob dressed up as Peter Pan!  I think he is pretty darn cute.  And it was fun this year that we were able to go to our ward's Trunk-or-Treat so Jacob was actually able to wear it out in public - rather, than for just Mark and I.  AND, Jacob even won first prize in our apartment's Halloween costume contest - a $50 Toys R' Us gift card! 
WOOT WOOT!



After our Trunk-or-Treat, Mark and I had our little family Halloween Party.  We ate donuts and apple cider and watched "Hocus Pocus."  Doesn't get much better than that!  

 
Happy Halloween!

Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Carving Pumpkins

I am a little behind in my blogging - working on LOTS of projects and there just aren't enough Jacob sleeping hours in the day to get them all done! :)

But last Saturday we carved our pumpkins for Halloween.  Mark and I had a great time!  Jacob had mixed emotions.  He went from super cute and happy to...emotional!  But we got them all done.  WOOT WOOT!






Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Visit from Grandma

My Mom was able to come visit the last couple of days and it has been GREAT!  We are so grateful that she came.  We had a wonderful time at Time Out for Women and she even watched Jacob one night so Mark and I could go on a date.  AND she was even here for our ward's Primary program so she could sit with Jacob while Mark and I were helping with that.  Perfect timing! 

It was also just so nice to have someone there to talk with throughout the day.  And she was a great help in making Jacob's Halloween costume.  I think it turned out adorable - but you'll have to wait till later to see!  A great visit!  We miss you already!  Love you!

And, of course, Jacob LOVES his Grandma!

Time Out for Women

This last weekend was WONDERFUL!  I loved it.  My Mom came to visit Friday and we were able to spend the weekend going to Time Out for Women.  I love Time Out for Women.  We laughed, we cried, we were uplifted.  It was awesome [despite the creepy zombie parade going out outside!].

Saturday, October 12, 2013

Pumpkin Patch

Today we went to the pumpkin patch with our friends, the Zurchers.  We had a blast!  Nothing says it's fall quite like a pumpkin patch!

We actually went to this pumpkin patch two years ago and we LOVED it so we were really happy to go back.  They have this adorable "spooky" village, a corn maze, a petting zoo, and a tractor ride out to the pumpkin patch.  LOVE IT!





We had a great time with the Zurchers - and Jacob's slowly getting over the fact that Claire slept their whole date :)

Friday, October 11, 2013

25th Birthday

Yesterday was my 25th birthday!  CRAZY!  

It was actually a pretty low-key day.  Mark actually missed his first class EVER from school that morning because he had to go to the doctor.  He was hurting - but luckily, he got the help that he needed and is on the mend.  But he was gone the whole morning dealing with that.  He got home while I was putting Jacob down for his nap and he had some lunch and took a nap too.  So I just went about my normal everyday things.  

Once both my boys got up we went down to get Mark's prescription filled and then headed off to dinner.  We COMPLETELY splurged and went out to eat at Macaroni Grill.  I love this place and we recently discovered that there is a location that is actually pretty close to us.  I was excited!  Plus, I am definitely in the stage where any meal I don't have to make is a complete WIN!  

So we stuffed ourselves silly with yummy food and I swear Jacob ate an entire loaf of their bread.  The kid could not get it into his mouth fast enough.  And I can't blame him - it is AMAZING!  

We came home and opened cards and presents.  I am very blessed to have such a wonderful family.  It always just means a lot to be remembered.  I was loaded with LOTS of new books and even some new movies.  Thank you everyone.  

My official birthday helper.

 We got Jacob all tucked into bed and then we dived into some frozen yogurt.  YUM!

Also, I just want it on the record that I did NOT eat this by myself!
 
Of course, my birthday was made especially wonderful because of my two boys.  I love them so much and am grateful for all that they do for me.  


Wednesday, October 9, 2013

"I Will Not Fail Thee, nor Forsake Thee"

I love General Conference!  And I am so happy to have my go-to guidance for the next six months.  WOOT WOOT!

Come, Join with Us
President Dieter F. Uchtdorf

"Those who join this Church love the Savior Jesus Christ and they wish to follow Him.  They rejoice in the knowledge that God speaks to mankind again.  When they receive sacred priesthood ordinances and make covenants with God, they can feel His power in their lives.  When they enter the holy temple, they sense they are in His presence.  When they read the holy scriptures and live the teachings of His prophets, they grow closer to the Savior they love so much.

The Church provides opportunities for doing good.

We see assignments not as burdens but as opportunities to fulfill covenants we gladly make to serve God and His children.

Our daily walk with Jesus Christ leads to peace and purpose in this life and profound joy and eternal salvation in the world to come. 

Doubt you doubts before your doubt your faith.  We must never allow doubt to hold us prisoner and keep us from the divine love, peace, and gifts that come through faith in the Lord Jesus Christ.

Regardless of your circumstances, your personal history, or the strength of your testimony, there is room for you in this Church."


The Moral Force of Women
By Elder D. Todd Christofferson

"Women bring with them into the world a certain virtue, a divine gift that makes them adept at instilling such qualities as faith, courage, empathy, and refinement in relationships and in cultures.

A woman's moral influence is nowhere more powerfully felt or more beneficially employed than in the home.  There is no better setting for rearing the rising generation than the traditional family, where a father and a mother work in harmony to provide for, teach, and nurture their children.

A mother can exert an influence unequaled by any other person in any other relationship.  By the power of her example and teaching, her sons learn to respect womanhood and to incorporate discipline and high moral standards in their own lives.  A mother's love and high expectations lead her children to act responsibly without excuses, to be serious about education and personal development, and to make ongoing contributions to the well-being of all around them.   

Whether you are single or married, whether you have borne children or not, whether you are old, young, or in between, your moral authority is vital. 

Former Young Women general president Margaret D. Nadauld taught: "The world has enough women who are tough; we need women who are tender.  There are enough women who are coarse; we need women who are kind.  There are enough women who are rude; we need women who are refined.  We have enough women of fame and fortune; we need more women of faith.  We have enough greed; we need more goodness.  We have enough vanity; we need more virtue.  We have enough popularity; we need more purity."

My please to women and girls today is to protect and cultivate the moral force that is within you.  Preserve that innate virtue and the unique gifts you bring with you into the world.  Your intuition is to do good and to be good, and as you follow the Holy Spirit, your moral authority and influence will grow.

Sisters, of all your associations, it is your relationship with God, your Heavenly Father, who is the source of your moral power, that you must always put first in you life."   


To My Grandchildren
By President Henry B. Eyring

"A loving Heavenly Father has set the same path to happiness for all of His children.  Whatever our personal characteristics or whatever will be our experiences, there is but one plan of happiness.  That plan is to follow all the commandments of God.

There is one overarching commandment that will help us to meet the challenges and lead to the heart of a happy family life.

"...Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind...Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself."

"What choices have led me toward loving the Lord with all my heart and soul and with all my mind?"  For me it has been to choose to put myself where I felt the joy of forgiveness through the Lord's Atonement. 

While serving others, we are most likely to plead for the companionship of the Holy Ghost.  Success in the Lord's service always produces miracles beyond our own powers.

It is only with the companionship of the Holy Ghost that we can hope to be equally yoked in a marriage free from discord.  I have seen how that companionship is crucial for felicity in a marriage.  The miracle of becoming one requires the help of heaven, and it takes time.  Our goal is to live together forever in the presence of Heavenly Father and our Savior. 

Heavenly Father has perfect foresight, knows each of us, and knows our future.  He knows what difficulties we will pass through.  He sent His Son to suffer so that He would know how to succor us in all our trials."


No Other Gods
By Elder Dallin H. Oaks

"The question posed by the second commandment is "What is our ultimate priority?"  Are we serving priorities or gods ahead of the God we profess to worship?

Knowledge of God's plan for His children gives Latter-day Saints a unique perspective on marriage and family.  We are correctly known as a family-centered church.  Our theology begins with heavenly parents, and our highest aspiration is to attain the fulness of eternal exaltation.  We know this is possible only in a family relationship.  We know that the marriage of a man and a a woman is necessary for the accomplishment of God's plan.  Only this marriage will provide the approved setting for mortal birth and to prepare family members for eternal life.  We look on marriage and the bearing and nurturing of children as part of God's plan and a sacred duty of those given the opportunity to do so.  We believe that the ultimate treasures on earth an din heaven are our children and our posterity. 

We are conscious that God's plan is for all of His children and that God loves all of His children, everywhere.  The scriptures teach that we are responsible to be compassionate and charitable (loving) toward all men. 

...Man's laws cannot make moral what God has declared immoral.  Commitment to our highest priority - to love and serve God - requires that we look to His law for our standard of behavior. 

President Thomas S. Monson...declared: "Let us have the courage to defy the consensus, the courage to stand for principle.  Courage, not compromise, brings the smile of God's approval.  Courage becomes a living and an attractive virtue when it is regarded not only as a willingness to die manfully, but as the determination to live decently.  A moral coward is one who is afraid to do what he thinks is right because others will disapprove or laugh.  Remember that all men have their fears, but those who face their fears with dignity have courage as well." "


"I Will Not Fail Thee, nor Forsake Thee"
By President Thomas S. Monson

"The difficulties which come to us present us with the real test of our ability to endure.  A fundamental question remains to be answered by each of us: Shall I falter, or shall I finish?

Whenever we are inclined to feel burdened down with the blows of life, let us remember that others have passed the same way, have endured, and then have overcome.

Our Heavenly Father...knows that we learn and grow and become stronger as we face and survive the trials through which we must pass.  We know that there are times when we will experience heartbreaking sorrow, when we will grieve, and when we may be tested to our limits.  However, such difficulties allow us to change for the better, to rebuild our lives in the way our Heavenly Father teaches us, and to become something different from what we were - better than we were, more understand than we were, more empathetic than we were, with stronger testimonies than we had before. 

This should be our purpose - to persevere and endure, yes, but also to become more spiritually refined as we make our way through sunshine and sorrow. 

Whether it is the best of times or the worst of times, He is with us.  He has promised that this will never change. 

My brothers and sisters, may we have a commitment to our Heavenly Father that does not ebb and flow with the years or the crises of our lives.  We should not need to experience difficulties for us to remember Him, and we should not be driven to humility before giving Him our faith and trust.

May we ever strive to be close to our Heavenly Father.  To do so, we must pray to Him and listen to Him every day.  We truly need Him every hour, whether they be hours of sunshine or of rain.  May His promise ever be our watchword: "I will not fail thee, nor forsake thee." "

Wednesday, October 2, 2013

We Never Walk Alone

This time of the year just makes me giddy.  I love General Conference!  Last Saturday was the Relief Society broadcast and I loved it.  I came away feeling so uplifted.  I loved each of the talks.  But it was so wonderful to hear what our sweet Prophet, President Thomas S. Monson had to say to us women. 

"Wherever we are in life, there are times when all of us have challenges and struggles.  Although they are different for each, they are common to all.  

 Peace is that which we seek, that for which we yearn.  

We were not placed on this earth to walk alone.  What an amazing source of power, of strength, and of comfort is available to each of us.  He who knows us better than we know ourselves, He who sees the larger picture and who knows the end from the beginning, has assured us that He will be there for us to provide help if we but ask.  We have the promise: "Pray always, and be believing, and all things shall work together for your good."

 As we remember prayer and take time to turn to the scriptures, our lives will be infinitely more blessed and our burdens will be made lighter.

My dear sisters, your Heavenly Father loves you - each of you.  That love never changes.  It is simply there.  It is there for you when you are sad or happy, discouraged or hopeful.  God's love is there for you whether or not you feel you deserve love.  It is simply always there.  

As we seek our Heavenly Father through fervent, sincere prayer and earnest, dedicated scripture study, our testimonies will become strong and deeply rooted.  We will know of God's love for us.  We will understand that we do not ever walk alone.  I promise you that you will one day stand aside and look at your difficult times, and you will realize that He was always there beside you."